The REAL College Experience... Part 1

I got a message asking me to truthfully evaluate the U- beyond the brochures and website.

It reminds me of a poster we have hanging up in one of the offices-

It makes me laugh each time I see it- mainly because it's so true. The poster, as well as the message, give me a great chance to tell you what to REALLY expect. I'll answer it in parts, because the questions bring up many layers that should be given the chance to answer fully.

Let us begin with the beginning... seems like the obvious thing to do, right?

"so the website and the welcome guides can say what they want, but it's basically the same thing everyone else says: our college is nice, kids have fun, come here.if you wouldn't mind, could you please tell me what the truth about the university of miami is? the stuff that they don't put in the brochures?"

I wanted the same kind of information when I was debating whether to go to UM or UF- sometimes it's difficult to evaluate what kind of experience you'll really have.  Quite honestly, I hated receiving those sugar-coated answers; they're generic and are always in the confines of being politically correct.

Just some starting points:

- One of the main points that is pushed about the U is how diverse the student population; and this is true.... in some senses.  We have students from various US states and many other countries, but it's mainly white-collar students (as opposed to blue-collared).  At first I thought this would have a big impact, but in the end the only thing it changes is how much of the cab fare you have to pay when with some friends.  I'll admit that it was a bit of a culture shock to me when I saw girls spending $150 on flip flops every other weekend, but everything is a learning experience.

- On a related note.... it's expensive here, regardless of scholarships.  Books, supplies, food, and fun all cost money at some point in time.  I've come to find that being able to budget yourself is very important.  This may be why I work two jobs.

- People here really do have a general crush on President Shalala- I know I'm not speaking for myself, because everyone stops and stares and pretty much bows down in front of her when they are graced with her presence.

- This school DOES offer challenging classes; that's why it's ranked higher than many others. Just be aware that a 101 class is definitly easier than a 232.... and sometimes easier isn't always better. Figure out where you belong, and you'll enjoy the academic side (yes, it does exist) to this college business much more.

That should get us off to a good start.

And if you were wondering-

As for the frisbee throwing that you so often see in various college ads,

that actually does happen.

Frequently.